just for kids

november 2003

Teens and parties go together like ham and eggs, but for children with diabetes, the combination can be a worry for parents, and a major health problem for their teens. All adolescents will resent dependence on their parents. Once you and your child are well versed about diabetes and its management, he or she should be permitted to participate in treatment decisions. Adolescents may rebel and act as if they don't have diabetes, ignoring their treatments (especially diet), and misrepresenting blood sugar tests results. Depression at this age is not uncommon. Since they will be quite aware of diabetic complications, they may refuse to take care of themselves, assuming they will die young anyway.

It's your responsibility to make sure your child understands the importance of good control of their blood glucose levels. Help them understand the significant improvements that have been made in diabetes treatment in recent years and make sure your child is aware that many people with type 1 diabetes do lead full, rich lives. Searching the Net, they can develop the names of many young adults with type 1 diabetes to "adopt" as role models. Don't hesitate to contact a professional counselor or seek out a self-help support group for children of their age level. Teenagers need someone to talk with besides their parents. Let your teenager meet with his or her doctor or diabetes educator alone. Lastly, make sure your child's teachers, school nurses, and other school personnel understand your child's diabetic condition. Read our previous article about your child's rights at school. Your child's teacher will also benefit from specific information about your child's particular diabetes control requirements. It's also a good idea to visit or call the school about once a month to see how things are going. Since your child spends a lot of time at school, the teacher may see or hear something before you do, regarding your child's behavior and diabetes control. REMEMBER: The care of diabetes is a team effort involving you, your physician, the diabetes education staff, and, at the appropriate age, your child. Always remain in touch with your child's physician and diabetes care team, bringing any questions you may have about your child's diabetes management to their attention. FTG